Many men have sexually, physically, and emotionally abused her. She then in turn abused herself and at times tried to commit suicide. By no means am I condoning or condemning her behavior based on her past, however I do believe it has something to do with her erratic behavior now. Instead of turning to substances, maybe the celebrity status would be the antidote to ease the pain of years of abuse and suffering. Frankly, nobody knows what makes her tick. To me this looks like a poor attempt of trying to emasculate them so she could feel better about their denial of sleeping with her.
What is she trying to prove? At one extreme this could be construed as a woman using her sexual liberation to control men, but I think what it really shows is an insecure woman trying to find validation of her self worth through childish antics. I did not write this post to preach or portray myself as being holier than though. I wrote this post to speak to a greater societal problem that I believe is destroying the little moral fiber that we humans have left in this world.
Your relationships with men are at the root of your popularity. My daddy died when I was, like, 10 months old. I was actually raised by my uncles… I never had a father figure, because my mom was running around with a lot of muthafuckas.
I got tired of it. I left. I never had that mother figure. I was not sexually abused. I was just physically abused. I was raised with punches.
All I know is violence. I just thought about money to pay my bills. I started meeting them out [in Miami]. And then I started meeting more on Twitter. You claim to have slept with many rappers, but some, like Nelly, Bow Wow and Fabolous, deny it. Of course a rapper is gonna say they never met me. This is about not enough men taking a stand against overt male supremacy. These are all deviant categories which have different forms of stigma and abuse attached to them.
And let me just say, this does not mean that black women who are good little girls, good little wives, and good little mothers are immune to violence because they are not.
Because all the male rappers loved Kat Stacks before she publically dissed their penises and their fake Hip Hop life styles. They loved her because she would happily have sex with them when and how they wanted to have sex. You can decide you do not want to cook to night he can beat you senseless.
You can decide not to sleep with his homies even though you slept with him and they gang rape you. You can say their penises are the sizes of toothpicks and male rappers will sit by and allow their fans to beat you.
And, often, not always, but often the responsibility is on the woman to prove she was victimized. And, of course she must not be a deviant black woman like Kat Stacks because her personhood automatically makes her guilty.
It just never fails to anger me and cause me to see how various acts of violence against black women are interrelated. Each of the 10 women murdered were allegedly women who were sex workers or black women who struggled with drugs.
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